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Guest Column
Want Success in the New Year? Give Up the Bad Habits for Good!
By Max Izenberg
"The unfortunate thing about this world is that good habits are so much
easier to give up than bad ones." - Somerset Maugham
Being human, we are all creatures of habit. Of course not all habits are
bad; we know that successful people generally have good habits. We all
recognize and perhaps even envy the office receptionist with her impeccable
time management and multi-tasking skills, or the manager who not only
handles a busy workload but also lends a helping hand to her team - and
makes it all look easy. We may even look up to these successful role models
as we form our own New Year's resolutions for the workplace.
So we begin to visualize a new person - one who will somehow be an improved
model better than the one of the last year. However, while we have all the
best intentions, how can we motivate ourselves to keep these promises and
throw away the bad habits? The key is to make the promises more of a
possibility instead of a one-time pledge. As Mark Twain said, "Giving up
smoking is easy - I've done it hundreds of times."
If you're guilty of committing the following "bad" workplace habits, help is
here! Follow these tips and guidelines to get back on the path to personal
and professional success:
Tardiness
Are you guilty of showing up to the office or meetings just a few minutes
late? This kind of habit can put the brakes on your career climb, so it's
time to put an end to it. But how? Little changes here and there can make
it less of a challenge! For example, move the time on your clocks forward
by five or 10 minutes, or place a note on your mirror that says, "I will
show up on time!" These tips will mentally prepare you to arrive on time and
serve as daily motivators. Ready to add more? Make your morning routine
easier and more efficient. Eat a quick breakfast at home instead of heading
for the drive-thru or set your coffeemaker instead of stopping by the coffee
shop. You can even pick out your clothes the night before to shave a few
minutes from your morning routine. If overcoming tardiness seems
overwhelming, just try one change first and master it. Then gradually add a
few others and soon enough you'll be known for showing up early instead of
late!
Overeating
Are you guilty of snacking on bad-for-you foods, especially when stuck in a
cubicle? Unfortunately, this kind of unhealthy habit can lead to some sneaky
pounds on your frame. It can be even worse if you have to travel for work
and eat out. However, if you want to drop those love handles, start by
visualizing yourself a few pounds lighter. Buy yourself an amazing work
outfit - but buy it a size or two smaller. Then, hang it next to your
mirror so you see it each day as you get ready for work. Imagine how great
you will look and how your colleagues, friends and relatives will see you in
a different and slimmer light. Then put it into action by bringing lunch to
work a few days each week, or taking the stairs instead of the elevator.
Bringing a pedometer to work can help keep you on the right track to
achieving that image. Soon enough you'll work off those few pounds and
become the vision you've been thinking about.
Being Discourteous to Others
Are you guilty of talking on the phone too loudly or wearing too much
cologne - to the point where you irritate your co-workers? If your bad
habit is being discourteous to others in the workplace, stop it so you will
be able to continue your climb in the workplace. The first step is being
aware of your colleague's thoughts and respecting how they feel about you.
If you are known as the guy who plays his radio too loudly or the manager
who wears too much perfume, it's time to establish a new reputation. Step
out of your "world" and get to know your officemates so you can understand
how they see you. Then, take the steps to repair your image, whether it's
taking your personal calls outside during a break or easing up on the
perfume/cologne. It's hard to recognize our own bad habits, much less
realize the effect they can have on others, but once you do congratulate
yourself. Taking these courteous steps can go a long way in the workplace
and you deserve a reward!
Smoking
Is your bad habit unhealthy AND unpopular with your colleagues? If you're
the only smoker in your office, then you probably know how it feels. Make
this your year to quit, and share your decision with your officemates for
increased success. Give them the actual date you plan to quit, and chances
are they will help hold you accountable. In fact, their support may help
you create a successful and clean break from smoking! Sharing your goals
with a supportive community (including friends and family) is a very
effective way to end those toxic habits.
Procrastination
Are you the person who waits until the last possible minute to finish your
projects? Do you make everyone wait on pins and needles to see if your work
will arrive on time? Unfortunately, procrastinating will not lead you far
on your career path. So, replace that bad habit with a good one! Manage
your time instead of letting it manage you. Use both electronic
calendars/reminders and paper calendars to keep you on track. Do you need
to look at one day at a time, a week at a time or a whole month to stay
focused? Choose what works for you. If you are easily distracted by other
projects, e-mails and conference calls, schedule a block of time in your
appointment book to focus on one project, and only that one project. You can
even ask a trusted officemate to hold you accountable for your deadlines.
Whatever you do, utilize a system that works for you and eventually your
procrastination habit will "disappear."
Being a "Yes" Man/Woman
Are you the colleague everyone turns to when they need help? While this can
be a good thing, it can also suggest that people are taking advantage of
your "just-can't-say-no" nature. In fact, you may be overwhelmed by all the
projects and committees you've taken on. Now is the time to break that
habit and create a goal that works. If you feel guilty about saying "no"
try this exercise: look into the mirror and practice saying it. Really! Get
comfortable with saying the word. Then, prioritize your goals. If you say
"yes" to every project, you won't have time for your own job
responsibilities. Make a list of the projects and activities that are
necessities for your career, then prioritize the rest. Start saying "no" to
those that do not make it into your top five or 10 list. Soon enough,
you'll be back in control of your career.
Psychologists agree that breaking bad habits usually take about thirty days,
so be resolute for that time period in order to give yourself a chance to
change. Realize that although New Year's is just around the corner, it's up
to us to stay accountable for our own actions no matter what time of year we
make our promises. In that eternal quest for self-improvement, stick to
your guns, and ensure that your bad habits do not stand in the way of your
success!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Max Izenberg is an author, lecturer and nutrition expert who helps
organizations, businesses, families, and individuals establish healthier
lifestyles. Her new book, "Reaching for 100," provides insights on the
correlation between good nutrition habits and good health, based on Max's
own transformation and lifestyle change 10 years ago. Today, she is slim,
fit and energized - without the help of prescription pills and medications.
To buy her new book or to hire her for speaking, visit: http://www.MaxLiving.ms or
call: 888-240-4495.
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